SPIRITUAL NURTURE FOR THE INTERIOR JOURNEY, CONNECTING HEARTS & SOULS

Friday, June 15, 2012

Taking off my ego for a minute

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Cruising through Facebook’s newsfeed, I stumbled across the post of an accomplished acquaintance revealing that she feared showing something she was developing to someone of stature and experience because it would be lacking. Instead, he raved about it and then there was a wonderful link to the course of study. Rich, detailed and well written, it occurred to me her work is similar to mine. With a few exceptions: credentials, perhaps more polish and a venue in which she is paid for her work.

I sulked for a minute, probably feeling the same doubt she described. I am little, I thought.

Stinging a bit, I scrolled down the page and found an amusing cartoon of a guy at the doctor, an x-ray on the light table showing a rectangle between his ribs and the caption: “Good news! You’ve got a book in you, just waiting to come out.”

That, I believe, was God at play, reminding me I am doing my work, all of which is contributing to the book in me, and my friend is doing hers and there is plenty of room for both. It’s not hers or mine, one is better and one, lesser. Not just room for both, but plenty of room.

This on the eve of my first advisory-committee meeting of six gifted individuals who will help me birth my longtime dream of nurturing local, under-served kids with a free-spirited art exploration program.

Why do I have to remind myself not to measure the success or importance of work by money?

I had wanted to begin last night’s advisory meeting with the Quaker act of centering as we each arrived from another place than the other. But we came in shifts and that didn’t seem to fit. I was grateful to have all of this support, but in the midst of talking, I started to doubt. Doubt my direction, doubt my inspiration to host this program, doubt there will be the necessary resources. [I am still waiting to hear about two grants.] The same doubt that reared its head reading the Facebook post yesterday.

When it kicks in, it so colors my perceptions. I think what transpired was a lively discussion and a session of bringing this wonderful variety of supporters to the place where I am.

I am: for me, that’s code for the presence of God. Last night, it seemed all about being understood. Today, it looks more like a group movement toward Spirit. I must trust that this transition of taking my program into group ownership is a shift in the right direction and that I must relax my grasp.

I’m not sure I know what that feels like, but I am going to playfully experiment with relaxing my grasp.

• When have I doubted recently?
• What stirred that experience?
• How do I respond to doubt?
• What surfaces?
• What, of God, lays beneath?


so much pushing
to get it all right

spell it ALL out

so everyone knows
where I am

and then I am
reminded
to take off my ego
for a minute

and listen to
where God is
calling




5 comments:

  1. Wonderful, Cathy! Way to go, all the way around!

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  2. Cathy, I adore you and all the creativity inside of you. I live with "self-doubt" and it's so crippling at times its hard to know what direction to go in . When I feel the Lord leading I am reminded of the verse "If God be for us then who can be against us" ....even if I am my worst enemy. Loved this blog !
    Tera

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  3. Thank you so much Jean and Tera. You both inspire me and it seems we share similar struggles. That's a wonderful verse, too. I appreciate your reading and commenting.

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  4. What a wonderful reminder. Doubt is the nagging voice that can have the power of clouding your perception if you let it. I have also recently been struggling with it myself in regard to my future goals. There are deep lessons in it, i think...but, can certainly be a struggle. Thank you for sharing.

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  5. Jill, I appreciate your reading and commenting. I'm glad, too, for your perspective. I think it clouds us more than we often admit. It's freeing to verbalize it and know others struggle. Blessings.

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